有野心的人应该把人生当"季节"过,而不是每天平衡好每件事。几年重仓工作、一段认真的健身、一两年数字游民、然后是家庭生活、接着择机开启新事业 or 产品 ——伟大成果要的是不被打断的连续冲刺,不是每日适度调和✨ 要达到这种状态,首先得有不怕失败的资本,另外得有超级专注的能力 …
我也正在实践这种“季节性”人生,每隔几年就会换一个事业主题和居住方式。不过家庭和持续投资应该是个常量而不是“季节”变量。从最早做社交产品、再换居住国家,然后是创投孵化,现在是北美一二级市场投资,下一个目标就是要用 AI 把自己产品化,同时开启全球漫游模式🌍
I think ambitious people should treat life in “seasons” rather than trying to balance everything every day.
A few years massively overallocated to work. A period getting seriously fit. A year or two nomading. Then family takes priority for a while. Then maybe at 35 you go completely insane again and spend four years building a new company, and so on.
The mistake is thinking every metric needs to stay green all the time. Most great outcomes (building a company, writing sth serious, training for an event) need uninterrupted runs, not daily moderation. Sometimes work should suffer cause you’re travelling, sometimes your social life should suffer cause you’re building, sometimes career progression should slow cause family matters more. That’s fine.
And tbh it probably makes life more fun too. You get actual chapters and completely different versions of yourself instead of spending 40 years maintaining the same perfectly optimised routine. A few intense years in one city, a weird nomad phase, an obsession that takes over your life, then something completely different. Probably much more memorable than one very long well-optimised Tuesday.
It's why I encourage everyone to think of balance in years, not days. A good life can look horribly unbalanced on some random Tuesday and still be very balanced over 10 years.
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